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Why Gatherlight Exists

I built Gatherlight to make it easier for people to spend time together in the real world.

Not because we don't care, but because modern life makes gathering surprisingly hard. Busy schedules. People spread across cities and countries. Different budgets, responsibilities, visas, and travel constraints.

I missed my friends. So I built the tool I wished existed, first for us, then for others like us.

Life pulls us in different directions:

  • Nearby, or across the globe
  • Single, partnered, or parenting
  • Flexible time, or limited time
  • Financial freedom, or financial limits

And yet the desire is the same: to be in the same place, at the same time, together.

That desire gets satisfied far too rarely.

We've all seen it play out:

"Let's get together!"

Everyone agrees. The group chat wakes up. Then the questions start:

  • When works for everyone?
  • Where should we meet?
  • How long should it be?
  • What budget is realistic?
  • Who needs visas? Childcare? Pet care?
  • Who's making the poll?
  • Who hasn't responded yet?
  • What's the deadline?

The energy drains. The plan stalls. Another year passes.

Even groups full of love and goodwill get stuck before they ever begin, not because they don't care, but because planning is overwhelming.

The distance isn't the problem. The logistics are.

What Gatherlight does

Gatherlight makes starting easy and follow-through possible.

It turns "We should get together sometime" into "The dates are on the calendar and we know where we're headed!"

So less time coordinating in group chats, and more time actually being together: talking, eating, laughing, hiking, dancing, resting, reminiscing.

Because the world is lonelier than it needs to be. And the fix isn't more time online: it's more time together, in person.